Blissful Deviant's Blog

Anyone who knows me, knows I’m bad at obeying rules! So! I’ll write a list of all the rules – some are more suggestions, I think? I will update this as new things come into play.

In no particular order:

• I must remember my mantra: I am a slut, I am an owned slut; I am property, I am owned property; I belong to Sir
• At all times when I am alone, I am to wear my collar. If sleeping / unbearably uncomfortable (I hate having things around my neck) I can wear it as a cuff around my wrist
• No bingeing, purging, cutting, burning, obsessive scratching, etc etc. None of my self destructive behaviours are allowed
• If I am tempted to act on any of the above cravings, I am to tell Sir straight away
• No smoking
• If I want a cigarette, I am to ask for permission. If I am with Malik at the time, I am to offer the cigarette to him to light.
• No other substances without permission
• Address Sir as Sir when first saying hello
• I am allowed to cum when I go to bed but must tell Sir
• At all other times, ask for permission to cum
• Keep Sir notified of everything that is going on during my day; where I am, who I’m with, what I’m doing etc
• I must always be contactable
• Remember my place and consider my responses before I open my mouth
• Clean Sir’s cock with my mouth after we fuck
• Remember MKB and don’t try to fight it hehe
• Tell Sir of any contact I have with people on fet; this includes those that contact me, those that I see and want to contact, everything
• Maintain the accounts that we have; this means sorting through all the messages we get and filtering out who can and can not have contact with Sir, as well as finding people we may have an interest in
• On weekdays, get up by 9:30am at the latest, unless I’ve been working the night before – then I can have some extra sleep (on weekends I can sleep until whenever)
• When I first get up, I am to work out for at least half an hour [unless I have something else on, then I can do my work-out later]
• I must get at least 8hrs sleep per night
• Each night before bed, write out a list of everything that must be completed the next day; check them off throughout the day
• Write down everything I eat
• I must play with my arse every time I shower – including fingering my asshole
• I must continually get my asshole more prepared for frequent use (this includes daily playing, inserting small toys etc)
• With every single person I encounter, I must evaluate the likelihood of fucking them and if I want to take it further; if yes, I must get permission and do whatever it takes to get that person
• I must be fucking more frequently; at least 1 different guy per week
• I will focus more on whurling
• My studies are my top priority; good marks come before all extra-curricular interests
• The direction that we head in is not for me to dictate, my influence is in how we are doing and how quickly we progress. When things get frustrating, my job is to ease the tension. When he gets rude or distant, my job is to be his sweet little girl who gives him more reasons to see her. When something is said or done and I see red, my job is to remember my place and to not speak out of place. When I’m upset, my job is to calm myself and figure out a way to express it to Sir that is respectful and to the point. Whatever is happening, my role is to ensure that we are good. For every negative, my role is to counteract it, and keep us moving forward.
• This blog is for recording my journey as property. The focus is to be on slutty and naughty things, tasks I am set, training, kink, fetish…. Whingeing & general life can and should be left out as much as possible.

**This list obviously does not contain all the basics that are general understandings, for example to always be honest and have no secrets, no hesitation etc**